{"id":1046,"date":"2021-02-02T09:49:55","date_gmt":"2021-02-02T09:49:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/?p=1046"},"modified":"2021-02-02T09:50:04","modified_gmt":"2021-02-02T09:50:04","slug":"what-is-wrong-with-my-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/pt\/2021\/02\/02\/what-is-wrong-with-my-child\/","title":{"rendered":"What is wrong with my child?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/chinh-le-duc-TV1QYUtTxJ8-unsplash.jpg?resize=640%2C427\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1062\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/chinh-le-duc-TV1QYUtTxJ8-unsplash.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/chinh-le-duc-TV1QYUtTxJ8-unsplash.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.practicalparenting.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/chinh-le-duc-TV1QYUtTxJ8-unsplash.jpg?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As a therapist, I am confronted with worrisome, concerned, frustrated and exhausted parents&#8230;. that have had enough or no longer know what to do with their child&#8217;s behaviour, or notice something unusual or out of the norm. Sometimes the behaviours or mannerisms are noticed by the parents themselves or parents receive feedback from the teachers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The unfortunate thing is when parents don&#8217;t do anything about it, because they don&#8217;t have the knowledge or the resources, or have a lack of awareness and understanding and may misinterpret the behaviour or mannerism as &#8220;naughty&#8221;. . . Some parents are ignorant and may say how the child will just grow out of it, and then don&#8217;t seek help immediately. But in actual fact we are doing the children a disservice. It may be a mental health problem or disorder of some kind. If it is not addressed, the disorder or problem can lead to risk for academic failure, substance abuse and a clash with the juvenile justice system \u2014 all of which come at a tremendous cost for the parents, their families and the community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I came across the Child Mind Institute, an organization based in USA. They came up with a brilliant tool on their website called the Symptom Checker <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/childmind.org\/symptomchecker\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/childmind.org\/symptomchecker\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/childmind.org\/symptomchecker\/<\/a>.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8216;<strong>Here\u2019s how it works:<\/strong><\/p><p>You indicate the behaviors that are making you concerned about your child by answering a series of questions. The Symptom Checker <strong>analyzes your answers to give you a list of psychiatric or learning disorders<\/strong> that are associated with those symptoms.<\/p><p>Since individual symptoms can reflect more than one disorder, this tool will give you a range of possibilities and guide you toward next steps. <strong>This tool cannot diagnose your child<\/strong>, but it can <strong>help you inform yourself about possible diagnoses<\/strong> and will offer information and articles to help you learn about them, to facilitate a conversation with a professional.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Check it out&#8230;.. it can guide you in the right direction&#8230;..<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a therapist, I am confronted with worrisome, concerned, frustrated and exhausted parents&#8230;. that have had enough or no longer know what to do with their child&#8217;s behaviour, or notice something unusual or out of the norm. Sometimes the behaviours or mannerisms are noticed by the parents themselves or parents receive feedback from the teachers. 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